Dating a closeted man
"We need to talk."Before journalist Kiri Blakeley's fiancé uttered these words, she had no idea he was a closeted gay man—who had been having sex with other guys for two years.
Imagine you have been dating a guy for months and feel head over heels for him.And for the first time ever, I looked at the world as an evil place because nothing—and no one—was what I thought.MC: Why did he pretend to be straight for a decade? Because he wasn't sure he was gay (he was in denial), he didn't confess earlier for fear of losing me.A relationship not only depends on mutual attraction and compatibility for its success but also on mutual trust, transparency and honesty.These conditions are hard to fulfill if your gay or lesbian partner is still closed about his/her sexual identity.